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And if you sever this one substantial factor from your prenuptial formula, you probably forego equilibrium, and the longer term stability most of us are seeking.
If you are starting to connect with someone on other levels, you want to know if you connect sexually as well. It took us all of three dates to end up in bed and it was basically at her invitation. Well being as I've gotten it on a first date before ....;) LMAOIt's more of a guideline than anything... If he respects you & actually cares about you..he'll wait It's like the old Nike slogan... " LMAO A little chauvanistic, I know..funny as hell! Some people believe in the "wedding night rule" =None till we say "I do". If you cant stay abstinent till marriage, please please please keep it out of the equation as long as possible.
Today, after years of "it has to be love before sex for me" ~ I'm much more inclined to go with the third-date rule.
There's nothing worse than investing time, energy, emotion only to discover there is NO sexual compatibility. JMO Sex clouds your judgement and it takes way longer than 3 dates to know a person, to love a person, to discern if they're faithful, if they are someone you wanna spend the rest of your life with - sweet_brownie07I would say it depends on the time/quality of those dates, plus the amount of time you spend talking, whether it's via email, IM or phone; before those dates.
Sex is one more way, potentially a powerful one, to bond with another, but so is walking in the park, kayaking fast water, or watching the sun set, and having a child together can be the most powerful of all.
We have way different tests for potential partners.