Tell me something about yourself dating
A first date is but a brief moment, to waste it on pretence seems such a waste. As a debonair businessman with a penchant for motorbikes and foreign travel, I have always fancied myself as something of a maverick.The truth is somewhat more mundane: I am merely another thirty-something office-worker toiling in the City.Part of this is to hold the attention of the employer, but it’s mostly to help you keep yourself in check.
We’re not used to thinking about ourselves, much less talking about ourselves, in terms of what we can offer to an employer.
Imagine the cinematic allure of Steve Mc Queen’s leathery scowl – then take it off the big screen and plaster it across the face of a far less attractive man. In the end, what was meant to be a display of stoic, no-nonsense manliness was just plain rude. I wanted to get to know someone and being mute was not helpful. The night was actually going rather well when, in an attempt to illuminate my soul, I started battering her with anecdotes.
It came as no surprise when she emailed to say she felt ‘there was no spark between us’. As we sipped our cocktails, I picked over the minutia of my life, recounting stories about friends, family and past loves.
Of course, we would all like to safely reveal our inner-selves to prospective partners, to find if that elusive spark truly exists.
However, getting to know people takes time, I believe it was Collins who once said, ‘you can’t hurry love, no – you just have to wait.’ What worked for me was to reveal my headline passions – my love of old movies, obscure books and clapped out motorbikes – my ‘greatest hits’ if you will. I also learned that when you speak from the heart, even one as bruised and worn as mine, you reveal yourself as you are: complex, contrary and inquisitive. I am Marcello – corporate peon, natural-born Londoner, and former sailor of the seven seas.